Tips on How to Support
Advocates offers these tips to people who know someone that may be in danger.
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Listen in a non-judgmental, supportive manner.
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Be supportive, regardless of the number of times they return to the relationship.
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Remind them that they are not alone and are not to blame for the abuse.
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Make referrals to programs that offer assistance to victims of domestic violence. Encourage them to make contact with a victim advocate to discuss options.
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Assist in developing a safety plan.
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If they tell you they are afraid, trust that there are good reasons for that belief.
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Tell them you’re concerned for their safety.
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Tell them that they deserve better than this.
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Be there for them even when you don’t understand their decisions.